Listening / How to Listen, Hear, and Validate
How to Listen, Hear, and Validate
Break Through Invisible Barriers and Transform Your Relationships (How to be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 11)
- Written by
- Patrick King
- Read by
- Russell Newton
- Length
- 3 hrs 5 min
- Rating
- 4.7 / 5
- Publisher
- Patrick King
- Released
- 2021-02-25
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What it is
Cultivate deep connections wherever you go. Break down conflict, misunderstanding, and loneliness.
Healthy relationships involve our feelings being heard, understood, and validated. Unfortunately, this is the exception rather than the rule. Are you doing it wrong and alienating people versus comforting them? Find out how to walk this fine line.
Uncover the biggest obstacle to the intimate, healthy relationships that we desire and deserve.
How to Listen, Hear, and Validate is all about our top communication struggle - our tendency to react instead of respond, and forget that our goal is to build bridges rather than walls. You’ll learn what you’ve been doing wrong, and why your efforts at getting closer to people - in deep or light manners - have failed. You’ll learn actionable techniques and frameworks to have the most productive conversations of your life - ones that will walk away with people praising how empathetic you are.
Most importantly, you will gain profound insights on how to reprogram yourself into a natural communicator.
No more unresolved issues, struggles to get close, or failures from ineffective communication.
Patrick King is an internationally best-selling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. His struggles in his early relationships has inspired him to unravel practical ways to cultivate meaningful, reciprocative interactions.
Establish vulnerable, fulfilling and satisfying relationships.
The big mistakes when we "listen" to others How to structure a style for effective validation and empathy Scripts to validate others, to know exactly what to say Simple tactics to make others feel loved and seen How to use empathetic communication and active listening techniques Did you know? At the heart of most communication problems is a lack of validation.
Are we truly paying attention to the messages others are conveying, or are we just waiting for our turn to speak? Are we listening to reply, or listening to hear? After applying the proven techniques from this book, you’ll be able to increase love, respect and satisfaction to your relationship. You’ll become the person everyone wants in their life.
Connect deeper and better. Raise the standard for your relationships.
About the series
How to be More Likable and Charismatic in order →How to be More Likable and Charismatic — 28 books, showing the 24 around this one
- 7 How to Listen with Intention: The Foundation of True Connection, Communication, and Relationships: How to be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 74.5
- 8 The Art of Witty Banter: Be Clever, Quick, & Magnetic (2nd Edition): How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 84.0
- 9 Read People like a Book: How to Analyze, Understand, and Predict People’s Emotions, Thoughts, Intentions, and Behaviors: How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 94.2
- 10 Improve Your Conversations: Think on Your Feet, Witty Banter, and Always Know What to Say with Improv Comedy Techniques (2nd Edition): How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 104.0
- 11 How to Listen, Hear, and Validate: Break Through Invisible Barriers and Transform Your Relationships (How to be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 11)4.7
- 12 How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth: Make People Reveal Their True Thoughts and Intentions Without Them Even Knowing It (How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 12)4.5
- 14 How to Be Hilarious and Quick-Witted in Everyday Conversation: How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 144.3
- 18 Become a Human Behavior Scientist: Observe, Read, Understand, and Decode People with Minimal Information (How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 18)4.6
- 20 Massive Charisma: Likability, Charm, Presence, and Success with People: How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 204.6
- 21 How to Talk to Anyone: How to Charm, Banter, Attract, & Captivate (How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 21)4.3
- 24 Communication Skills Training: How to Talk to Anyone, Speak with Clarity, & Handle Any Situation (How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 24)
- 25 Unspoken Social Rules & Etiquette, (Un)common Sense, & How to Act: How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 254.5
- 26 The Science of Reading People: How to Understand What People Are Really Saying and Why (How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 26)4.0
- 29 How to Speak Effectively: Influence, Engage, & Charm: How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 293.0
- 31 Massive Charisma: Small Talk, Charm, Likability, and How to Succeed with People (How to be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 31)
- 35 Mindful Listening: How to Be Present, Intentional, and Empathetic (How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 35)3.0
- 37 The Social Skills Toolkit (4 Books in 1): How to Read People, Speak with Influence, Become Charismatic, and Make Friends Instantly: How to be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 375.0
- 38 Gain Social Awareness and Become Socially Perceptive!: How to Read Social Cues, Emotions, Behavior, and Intentions (How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 38)
- 39 I Feel Heard: How to Speak the Language of Emotions, Validate, and Truly Listen (How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 39)4.5
- 40 How to Speed Read People: Think Like a Psychologist, Analyze Human Behavior, and Decode Emotions (How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 40)3.7
- 41 Elements of Likability: The New Science of Charm, Wit, Small Talk, and Social Intelligence (How to be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 41)
- 43 Science-Based Social Skills: Using Psychological Data to Beat Awkwardness, Survive Small Talk, and Win People Over (How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 43)5.0
- 44 How to Have a Normal Conversation: 20 Strategies for Productive Small Talk, Flowing Rapport, and Instant Likability (How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 44)5.0
- 45 The Science of Charisma: 174 Small Behavioral Tweaks for Charm, Likability, and Rapport (Backed by Research) (How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 45)5.0
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